Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Things I am Realizing on the Eve of My 26th Birthday

On August 2, 1981 a child was born....

And on the eve of my 26th I am realizing some things...

...The more one seeks to explain God the more confusing he/she becomes. God existed before logic.

...Yet I won't and can't cease in explaning my spiritual position.

...Instinct is a form of spiritual communication. Listen!

...Those people with the heaviest burdens are often the most interesting.

...Sexiness is an attitude and not simply a form of physical being.

...I'll never fall in love like I did the first time because I'll never be able to be that naive again...Sometimes ignorance can be our blessing in life.

...The Devil does not exist.

...Sex without love is like driving without insurance..HIGH RISK!

...The only color that really matters in America is green.

...Cynicism is eventually detrimental to the progressive political mind.

...I don't know if I believe in marriage...I do believe in healthy relationships.

...Will Demps is too pretty to be playin football...It's CRIMINAL!

...It's about time we in the gay community stop and analyze the way we emulate, and make normative, heterosexual roles in our sexual relationships...The tops are the predators and the bottoms are prey...Tops are congratulated in their multiple conquests while bottoms are demonized for their percieved "promiscuous" behavior. We certainly are more diverse and critical as a community...I would like to think...but sometimes I wonder.

I promise not to stay away for so long next time...

P.L.E. (PeaceLoveandEternity),

KB, HX

6 Comments:

Blogger Mr. Jones said...

Happy Belated Birthday!

4:23 AM  
Blogger ShawnQt said...

I agree with most of what you said, feel exactly the same way on your "spiritual position."

In reference to the "Top" situation. I don't think, at least in my personal experiences that I celebrated anyone being a top and having multiple partners.

I think its safe to say, being a top or bottom and sleeping around with anyone is still looked down apon. I mean who really is a strict top now a days?

6:54 AM  
Blogger @GaryTylone said...

OMG! HAppy Belatd Birthday !!!! I agree about the heterosexist ways we've adapted... but in our defense, we've had nothing else to look at or emulate.

9:30 AM  
Blogger BuddahDesmond said...

Happy Belated Birthday! Definitely feel you with each revelation.

Sex without love is very dangerous (I've learned my lesson). And can I get an Amen for healthy relationships?! I'm so glad you mentioned. It seems people are so quick to jump over the broom in relationships that they forget the part about having a solid foundation. And I think its time for us to really be honest about what we want in our relationships. It may take some soul searching but it'll be worth it. It may not resemble the normative roles in heterosexual relationships many of us have been emulating. Hell, normative roles sometimes fail in heterosexual relationships.

Nice post!

4:07 PM  
Blogger fuzzy said...

hmmmm alot to ponder...

1:25 PM  
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